An adjective denoting "doesn't care about his looks" (2025)

Hello,

Let's say I want to indicate that a particular woman struggles with finding a man (=a romantic partner) because she doesn't care about her looks: she doesn't use makeup, doesn't use a perfume, wears unappealing clothes, etc. Or, let's say I want to describe a particular man in a similar way, i.e., as someone who doesn't care about his looks

What would be a proper English adjective to describe a person with this kind of "attitude" towards his looks?

Thank you for your help

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Edited to add: But my most recent deletion wasn't quick enough to prevent the post below.

Florentia52 said:

I don't see that someone should be called "slovenly" simply because he/she doesn't wear perfume or makeup or "appealing" clothes. I fit two and probably three of those categories, and I would take offense at the term.

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Yes, Florentia, you're right. This is a matter of personal taste. I used perfume-wearing just as an example to explain my intention; obviously, a person doesn't have to wear perfume. What I meant was: "a person who doesn't have a great concern about smelling bad/unpleasant in the presence of other people".

owlman5 said:

The adjective you choose depends on how critical you want to be, JustMe. I would probably choose something like slovenly if I wanted to make a remark about somebody who didn't care about whether he stank.

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I see.
Well, I would like to use this adjective in the context of dating websites etc., in the section in which a user is requested to indicate what qualities he would consider "bad" in his partner (e.g. "impolite, superficial..."). Would the adjective "slovenly" be proper in this context?

JustMe750 said:

I see.
Well, I would like to use this adjective in the context of dating websites etc., in the section in which a user is requested to indicate what qualities he would consider "bad" in his partner (e.g. ", impolite, superficial..."). Would the adjective "slovenly" be proper in this context?

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Slovenly doesn't sound any worse to me than impolite or superficial do. If you're worried about sounding too negative, you might consider some phrase like careless in appearance. Unhygienic is a fairly clinical-sounding, neutral adjective that can be used to describe somebody who doesn't care about smelling bad in public.